Gregory French, president-elect of the National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys, explains, “What a family member considers ‘fair’ is very much dictated from that family member’s perspective…there’s a lot of family baggage that comes out, like: ‘Mom paid for your MBA, and she didn’t do that for me.’”
These tricks can help family members reach an arrangement on the most fair division of care for a senior loved one in Iowa:
- Recruit the aid of a mediator. Sitting down with the help of a respected third party professional, such as an attorney or financial planner with an area of expertise in elder issues, could go a long way towards trying to keep the discussion on track and advancing to the best resolution.
- Give some thought to hands-on care help vs. expenses. Dividing up caregiving duties fairly ought to include a discussion on how much time each sibling can dedicate to providing care in the home, and how much financial care can be supplied. For instance, a sibling dwelling in close proximity to the loved one may donate more time but reduced financial support versus an individual who resides in another state.
- Document the conversation. Putting everything in writing makes sure that everybody is on the same page, and allows for the chance to go back and go over what was decided upon later if a disagreement should occur.
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