When you care for someone day in and day out, “Of course I can” can become your default answer before you even check in with yourself. You stay late, skip meals, cancel plans, and tell yourself you will rest when things “calm down.” The trouble is, caregiving rarely calms down on its own. And without setting boundaries as a caregiver, you eventually end up running on fumes, resentful, or both.
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How to Tell if Your Aging Parent’s Care Needs Have Changed This Year
When you think back over the last year, you probably remember the big moments: birthdays, holidays, doctor visits, maybe even a hospital stay. But the most important changes in an aging parent’s life often don’t show up in photos or on the calendar. They’re in the details you only notice when you slow down and really look at an aging parent’s care needs and how they may have changed.